You have been hanging around her for a while now, and even though you know that she already has a boyfriend, you can't help but feel as if you are in love with her. This is driving you crazy because you have never been the kind of guy to covet another man's girlfriend. Still, you know what you feel inside and you know that you are not going to be able to just push these feelings aside for too long.
There is going to come a time when you are going to have to deal with the fact that you are head over heels for this woman and you are going to have to come to some kind of a decision on what to do. This is a hard situation to be in, that's for sure.
What you may want to consider is the price that you are going to have to pay if you were to tell her the way that you feel and you were to try and pursue her, even though she has a boyfriend. At the very least, you have to admit that this has all of the markings of what could end up being an unpleasant scenario if things don't work out the way that you want them to. Even if they do work out the way that you want and you end up winning her over, you still have to deal with the fact that there was another guy in the picture before you.
Is she really the only one out there?
You also might want to consider the possibility that you are feeling this way because you don't have too many options in your life. When a guy does not have many options, it's normal for him to start looking at some of the ones that he does have as if they are the one that he is supposed to be with. If there is the possibility that you feel like you are in love with her because there is no one else in your life, then the solution may not be to pursue the woman who already has a boyfriend, it may be to pursue going out to meet someone new.
Are you ready for the potential heartbreak?
Finally, I would also remind you that you are going to have to deal with the possibility that she may end up saying that she does not feel the same way about you. Of course, that is going to hurt and you may not be able to deal with that heart break and you might end up losing someone that you consider to be a friend as well. I can't really make the decision for you of whether or not you should pursue her if she has a boyfriend, I can only remind you of the many things that you are going to have to consider. There is always a price that you have to pay and if you can't pay that price - then maybe you should just keep your feelings to yourself.
There is going to come a time when you are going to have to deal with the fact that you are head over heels for this woman and you are going to have to come to some kind of a decision on what to do. This is a hard situation to be in, that's for sure.
What you may want to consider is the price that you are going to have to pay if you were to tell her the way that you feel and you were to try and pursue her, even though she has a boyfriend. At the very least, you have to admit that this has all of the markings of what could end up being an unpleasant scenario if things don't work out the way that you want them to. Even if they do work out the way that you want and you end up winning her over, you still have to deal with the fact that there was another guy in the picture before you.
Is she really the only one out there?
You also might want to consider the possibility that you are feeling this way because you don't have too many options in your life. When a guy does not have many options, it's normal for him to start looking at some of the ones that he does have as if they are the one that he is supposed to be with. If there is the possibility that you feel like you are in love with her because there is no one else in your life, then the solution may not be to pursue the woman who already has a boyfriend, it may be to pursue going out to meet someone new.
Are you ready for the potential heartbreak?
Finally, I would also remind you that you are going to have to deal with the possibility that she may end up saying that she does not feel the same way about you. Of course, that is going to hurt and you may not be able to deal with that heart break and you might end up losing someone that you consider to be a friend as well. I can't really make the decision for you of whether or not you should pursue her if she has a boyfriend, I can only remind you of the many things that you are going to have to consider. There is always a price that you have to pay and if you can't pay that price - then maybe you should just keep your feelings to yourself.
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