When many of us picture romantic relationships we think about holding hands while walking side by side on some exotic beach. The connection is so strong that no words need to be exchanged. Both you and your significant other have the look of love.
Except those times are more like the icing on the cake rather than the actual cake. To achieve that state of bliss requires work on the part of both parties. No doubt you can go for one of those wonderful walks while you are still trying to build and grow your romantic relationship. But far too many couples put the cart before the horse as evidenced by the fact that half of all marriages end in divorce.
Therefore it is important to be aware of those things that can stop your relationship from achieving that level of romantic bliss.
1. The After Work Routine
Having a steady job requires a certain routine. Get up a certain hour and do specific things to get you ready for the day ahead. But it doesn't stop there. The job if you are not careful can easily set the schedule when you come home from work. You are so busy thinking and prepping for the next day that you have no quality time ready for your significant other.
2. The Too Busy Routine
You have always got a full plate. Whether it is attending to some family responsibilities or taking care of business outside the home. You tell yourself that it is an essential part of your life and that's just the way it is. That may be true but it does not have to be. Your spouse should always be number one on your priority list.
3. The Already Known Routine
The two of you have gotten to know each other quite well. Unfortunately that means you are apt to take short cuts in keeping the relationship strong. Or just take each other for granted in the hopes that both of you will understand.
You never stop learning in a relationship and that includes learning about the other person. Don't make the mistake of believing you know all you need to know about your significant other.
Except those times are more like the icing on the cake rather than the actual cake. To achieve that state of bliss requires work on the part of both parties. No doubt you can go for one of those wonderful walks while you are still trying to build and grow your romantic relationship. But far too many couples put the cart before the horse as evidenced by the fact that half of all marriages end in divorce.
Therefore it is important to be aware of those things that can stop your relationship from achieving that level of romantic bliss.
1. The After Work Routine
Having a steady job requires a certain routine. Get up a certain hour and do specific things to get you ready for the day ahead. But it doesn't stop there. The job if you are not careful can easily set the schedule when you come home from work. You are so busy thinking and prepping for the next day that you have no quality time ready for your significant other.
2. The Too Busy Routine
You have always got a full plate. Whether it is attending to some family responsibilities or taking care of business outside the home. You tell yourself that it is an essential part of your life and that's just the way it is. That may be true but it does not have to be. Your spouse should always be number one on your priority list.
3. The Already Known Routine
The two of you have gotten to know each other quite well. Unfortunately that means you are apt to take short cuts in keeping the relationship strong. Or just take each other for granted in the hopes that both of you will understand.
You never stop learning in a relationship and that includes learning about the other person. Don't make the mistake of believing you know all you need to know about your significant other.
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